Making Your Own Imprint

‘Making your own imprint on life implies that you know exactly how to express “your own inimitable style,” as my wonderful Irish father used to say. But do you? Today continue to expand your sense of the possible and find out. Consider the following scenarios strictly for fun.

You move into a completely empty house and start over from scratch- money is not a consideration. Write down twenty specifics for your ideal home from architectural features to furnishings that are “must haves” for you. They can range from a window seat in the upstairs hall to an English club chair with a tufted ottoman beside a fireplace. Let your imagination and creative flair have free rein. Are any of these items from your past? Where did you first encounter them? Do you remember? How long have you been dreaming about having them? Are there any items here from your childhood home?

Next, imagine that your closet and drawers are empty. You need to fill them. What are the first things you would either hang up or put away? You may either keep favorites from your present wardrobe or buy entirely new items. Which comes first for you, comfort or career?

Your kitchen cabinets are bare. You need to buy new china, flatware, glasses, and linens for everyday use and for entertaining. Where do you begin? What patterns do you want to see every day? What shape glasses do you enjoy drinking from? Have you ever thought about this? Do you prefer a pottery mug or a paper-thin china teacup for your morning brew? These details are your authentic preferences.

“The soap in the bathroom, the flowers in the garden, the book on the bedside table are all strong symbols of a life in progress,” notes writer and interior decorator Charlotte Moss in her book A Passion for Detail. “You look at these details and a world unfolds.” Each day you create yourself anew through choice. By paying attention to the details- your authentic gestures- you give expression to the most personal of all the arts: making your own imprint on life.’ -Sarah Ban Breathnach, Simple Abundance A Daybook of Comfort and Joy